When Hailie Mathers casually mentioned that her son Elliot had shown an interest in rapping, she never expected the response she received from her father, Eminem. A conversation that started lightheartedly quickly became one of the most raw and heartfelt exchanges between father and daughter.
“No,” Eminem said firmly, shaking his head, leaving Hailie taken aback.
Slightly confused, Hailie asked, “What do you mean, ‘no’? He’s got the potential, Dad. Look at the way he taps his feet to the beat and hums along to the music.” She laughed, thinking her father was joking, but his expression told a different story.
Eminem wasn’t smiling. His face became serious, his voice soft but firm. “I’ve been in this business long enough to know what it can do to people. The fame, the pressure, the constant eyes on you… it can swallow you whole. I’ve seen it ruin lives, Hailie. I’ve seen the dark side of this industry, and I wouldn’t wish that for my grandson. Not now, not ever.”
Hailie paused. She had grown up around the shadows of her father’s career — the highs and the lows, the battles, and the triumphs. But hearing him speak so strongly about his experiences, about the damage the industry had done to so many, was a reality check.
Eminem continued, with a quiet intensity that Hailie could feel deep in her bones. “I don’t want Elliot to grow up with the same kind of pressure I had. I don’t want him to feel like he has to live up to anything or become something the world expects of him. He’s just a kid, Hailie. Let him have a childhood. Let him figure out what he wants to do — without the world breathing down his neck.”
For the first time, Hailie saw her father not just as the rap legend, but as a grandfather — a protector who had lived through the very darkness he wanted to shield Elliot from. It hit her hard: the very career that made her father famous was something he now wished to keep his family away from.
“I get it, Dad,” she said softly, understanding the weight of his words.
Eminem gave a small, almost wistful smile, his voice tinged with emotion. “I just want him to be happy, Hailie. I don’t want him to grow up under the same pressures I did. He can be whatever he wants to be, but I just don’t want him to be part of this crazy world unless it’s something he truly loves. I didn’t have that choice when I was his age.”
The conversation shifted, but the gravity of Eminem’s words hung in the air. Hailie felt a mix of admiration for her father’s love and protectiveness, but also a sense of sadness for the cost of fame. As she looked at her son Elliot, she realized that the world of rap was one that should stay far away for now — giving him the chance to grow up without expectations or pressure.
Days later, Hailie couldn’t shake the conversation from her mind. As a mother, she knew her father was right. Elliot deserved a chance to be a kid — to dream freely without the burden of what the world might expect from him, especially as the grandson of one of rap’s biggest icons.
For now, Hailie would let Elliot explore the world at his own pace. Whether he’d grow up to be a musician or something entirely different, she knew one thing: he would always have the love and support of his grandfather, should he ever choose to follow that path.
But for now, what mattered most was that Elliot had the freedom to grow, dream, and discover himself — just as his grandfather had never truly been able to. In this moment, Hailie silently thanked her father for ensuring that her son’s dream would remain pure, untouched by the weight of expectations.
And while Elliot might not be heading into music anytime soon, one thing was for sure: he would always have the legacy of Eminem to look up to — and the wisdom of a grandfather who knew the true cost of fame.